This website

is not to find

the One.

But continue

reading to find the

Right Relationship

for you.

Let’s start with some good news:

The Right Relationship for you is NOT exclusive to one guy or woman.

The bad news is that you could spend years chasing the wrong Relationships.
And that can make you feel lonely, frustrated, bitter, stressed, depressed, or simply unhappy.

How do you know what’s RIGHT FOR YOU?

You know the truth by the way it FEELS, and also by learning the metrics of Romantic Love and Personality Types.
WHO you REALLY ARE. WHO the other REALLY IS. WHAT you + the other, together, CREATE.
In other words, that beautiful PARTNERSHIP.
Understanding what I need in Love and how it all “works” was the single most important discovery of my life.
QUIZ: Find your Personality Type in your Love Life

This knowledge can be learned, and it will save you heartbreak, suffering, despair, and loneliness.

It will also save you from becoming a cynic, and as the years go by, hearing yourself say things like:

“All men/women/ relationships are the same, what’s the point?”

“Maybe I’m not supposed to be with anyone.”

“Relationships are too much work.…”

“I don’t need anyone.”

“I’m better on my own.”

“I’m too old.”

“I don’t want to cook or clean for anyone.”

“Sex is over rated.”

“Intimacy? Can’t even remember what that’s like.”

“I need to ‘finish’ my inner work first before ‘I’m ready’ for a relationship.”

“I don’t know how to establish boundaries.”

If ANY of the above rings the bell in the slightest way… you are still in the RIGHT PLACE to find love.

I work with Women, Men, Couples, and Groups, at any stage of their love life – from single to mourning a past relationship – to help them find long-lasting love.


These are some of the benefits of my work:

  • Find balance with your authentic self.
  • Stop feeling lonely if you do, at any level of frequency, when single.
  • Discover real intimacy again.
  • Realise Relationships are investments, which yes, take work and feeding, but are NOT meant to feel like “work”.
  • See a future with a partner.
  • Have your love life “sorted”, instead of it being a constant source of worry, or wonder and an “unfinished” thing.
  • Realise True Love exists for all, find it, live it, nurture it, sustain it and celebrate it!
  • Understand where problems (and possible solutions) may arise in any combination of Personality Types.
  • Get married (if that’s what you want).
  • Get divorced (if that’s what you need).
  • Be someone who matters, are important and have an impact in someone’s life.
  • Create a Life of Quality by choosing to be in a Quality Relationship.
  • Learn "Smart Dating"!
  • Find your compatible Romantic Match and build a sustainable long term Relationship.

Services

  • Individual Coaching

    for singles or individuals in a relationship. We work on achieving higher self-esteem, learning your healthy boundaries, and exploring your personal values for a life of integrity, authenticity, happiness, and fulfillment. These sessions are also aimed at working on whatever goals the client may have for their love life, no matter its status. You may do single sessions or a Coaching Program (minimum 2 months, 1x/week).

  • Coaching for Couples

    To assist couples in navigating successfully their Personality Types and Relationship Compatibility. These sessions are aimed at reaching whatever goals the couple may have for “resolving” the status of their love life. Couples can do single sessions or a Coaching Program (minimum 2 months, 1x/week)

  • Personality Map Report

    for individuals, it’s a PDF sent by email, which analyses the personality constellation of the person, giving him or her guidelines on how to attract, build, and sustain healthy love based on his/her personality type and how to get the long-term committed relationship they desire with a compatible partner.

  • Love Compatibility Report

    for couples, it’s a PDF document sent by email, with an orientation about their specific partnership and compatibility, providing solutions for possible challenges and shining light on the strengths of the relationship.

  • Workshops & Talks

    For singles and couples, I teach how to navigate Romantic Relationships and spot Archetypes, based on the guidelines and tools of anthropologist Helen Fisher that have proven successful, and help women and mixed groups to achieve balance and happiness in their love lives. You may request this service for your Event, Retreat, Festival, University, etc.

I work Online, In Person, and On The Road when traveling.

I do Single Sessions, Coaching Programs, Workshops, and Talks.


Read more about our Services in the Instagram highlights and reach out for more information or any questions.

Articles

Homage to MEN

As promised... I could not end 2020 without an article on the amazing creature that inhabits planet Earth, called "man". I know for many people, this year has been terrible/ a year to forget / a year that never existed / a virus "in the…
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Don’t be the Woman who “waits”.

(photo: Jordania 2013) We have all been there. The phone doesn't ring. The text doesn't come. So, we send one. The reply comes in, maybe 1h, maybe a day later. And it's shorter than ours, doesn't have the same zest. We reply with a longer one. We…
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A Decision Made is a Second Skin

A Decision that is made becomes a Second Skin I came across this sentence and fell in love with it. It completely translates what happens in my body when manage to make an important or difficult decision that had been weighing on me. It is…
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Homage to MEN

As promised... I could not end 2020 without an article on the amazing creature that inhabits planet Earth, called "man". I know for many people, this year has been terrible/ a year to forget / a year that never existed / a virus "in the…
Read more

Don’t be the Woman who “waits”.

(photo: Jordania 2013) We have all been there. The phone doesn't ring. The text doesn't come. So, we send one. The reply comes in, maybe 1h, maybe a day later. And it's shorter than ours, doesn't have the same zest. We reply with a longer one. We…
Read more

A Decision Made is a Second Skin

A Decision that is made becomes a Second Skin I came across this sentence and fell in love with it. It completely translates what happens in my body when manage to make an important or difficult decision that had been weighing on me. It is…
Read more
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Testimonials

“My conversations with Elisa have given me something priceless, an intelligent, balanced perspective on my work, friendships, love and more. Best of all, I feel she is smartly training me to spot archetypes in the many people I encounter, and helping me to make better choices on who to engage with and how. The happy result: I am discovering more of what I truly want in all these diverse spheres of life. Muito obrigado, Elisa.”

“I had the pleasure to have Elisa as a Coach. I was impressed by her true caring for her clients. From the program she designs to the support and suggestions she provides, she brings a sincere desire to help you achieve your own goals and give you the tools and support to be successful.”

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