“GAME OF HEARTS” – The only Game you really need to Win.
– Deck of Cards (& Workshop)
Winning in Love is the best!
“GAME OF HEARTS” was designed as an oracle of cards for individuals, singles, and couples to Discover and Explore the 4 Personality Types (by anthropologist Helen Fisher).
Learn about the Love Brain and your own biological love profile. See how your type best navigates the twists and turns of Relationships. It’s all in the cards. You may draw a provocative or insightful message, a tricky question, or a challenge… It’s all part of the game of love.
Relational Intelligence can be fun and educational. Find your compatible match faster once you know who you are, and how you and others love.
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MATCH Right
with Your Type!
Fortunately, in most cultures, we have the liberty to choose our romantic partners. But all that freedom is no guarantee of happiness. Our choices are often neither conscious nor well-informed. Too often we settle for a poor match, leading to heartbreak and loneliness.
Fortunately, there’s another path, called the Love Brain, research based on the scientific studies of anthropologist Helen Fisher. Understanding how the Love Brain works will help you find long-lasting Love, today.
The 4 Personality Types
Take the Personality Test and find out who you are and how you love!
If you already took the test, read on to learn more.
Take me to the PERSONALITY TEST!
Finding Love is rare, and knowing how to keep it, rarer still. But, you can learn both skills.
And I’ll show you how.
What’s the value of this knowledge?
SINGLES:
SINGLES will improve the status and quality of their love
life and find a compatible Match quickly. This increased awareness
will also save you from wasting time, energy, and resources on
relationships that are destined to fail. Even better, it will prevent you
from getting into them in the first place!
COUPLES:
COUPLES will discover how to further grow their partnership,
understand it better, and reconnect more deeply with one another.
“GAME OF HEARTS” – The only Game you really need to Win.
– Deck of Cards (& Workshop)
Winning in Love is the best!
“GAME OF HEARTS” was designed as an oracle of cards for individuals, singles, and couples to Discover and Explore the 4 Personality Types (by anthropologist Helen Fisher).
Learn about the Love Brain and your own biological love profile. See how your type best navigates the twists and turns of Relationships. It’s all in the cards. You may draw a provocative or insightful message, a tricky question, or a challenge… It’s all part of the game of love.
Relational Intelligence can be fun and educational. Find your compatible match faster once you know who you are, and how you and others love.
On sale in 2025.
To order a deck of Game of Hearts at the presale price, email us at contact@elisadelima.com.
Coming soon:
www.gameofhearts.eu / Instagram:
@gameofhearts.eu
About the 4
Personality Types:
EXPLORERS –
The ones that choose the path least traveled!
Explorers are…
Curious, creative, and adventurous. They love leading the way, making discoveries, and having tons of fun (and sex!). They are the most sexual of the 4 Types.
Who do they match well with? Who should an Explorer choose as a romantic partner?
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About Explorers:
Explorers are driven by dopamine, the pleasure neurotransmitter. They run fast, exhibiting bursts of energy. Adventure-seeking with a love of novelty, Explorers exude enthusiasm, and impulsiveness. Though intellectually curious, mentally flexible, and creative, their curiosity has
a limit. Explorers lack introspection, and often have a hard time looking within themselves.
Restless, fast-paced, and flighty, all that bubbling curiosity drives them to constantly generate new ideas or creative insights. They easily jump from one thing to another, and can sometimes find themselves juggling many different tasks, dreams, and life plans at once.
Explorers get hooked on whatever currently pleases them: traveling, hiking, sports, reading, cooking. Their sense of adventure is of the senses, but also of the mind. Yet their hot-blooded temperament doesn’t always push them to dare risky, intense situations: an interesting conversation about unconventional topics can be a great adventure!
People are drawn to most Explorers. Generous, and pleasurable to be around, they tend to be playful, sensual, hedonistic, and amusing.
Conversely, Explorers do not tolerate boredom, and reject routines of almost any kind. That impatience can make them difficult to deal with,
especially in relationships.
According to Helen Fisher, Explorers match well with Explorers. They
thrive with someone who brings the same level of energy and spontaneity, and the same thirst for freedom, novelty, adventure, and fun!
NEGOTIATORS –
The dreamers and philosophers of the world!
Negotiators are…
Romantic, natural empaths, communicative, and introspective. They are here to connect people with one another and help the world be a better place. They are the most altruistic type.
Who do they match well with? Who should a Negotiator choose as a romantic partner?
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About Negotiators
Negotiators are mainly driven by estrogen, which is the hormone that
promotes the development and maintenance of female characteristics
and is associated with the YIN energy in Feng Shui.
Negotiators express contextual, holistic, and long-term thinking, as well as linguistic skills, agreeableness, cooperation, intuition, empathy, and nurturing. Generosity and trust, the drive to make social attachments, heightened memory for emotional experiences, keen imagination, and mental flexibility are other key traits. Oxytocin, closely related to estrogen, is also associated with several pro-social Negotiator traits, including the ability to read emotions in others.
Negotiators instinctively know what others are thinking and feeling. They effortlessly intuit someone’s feelings by observing facial expressions, physical gestures, and tone of voice. Their interest in the humanness of others also extends to themselves, making them highly introspective and self-analytical. These men and women enjoy diving deep and journeying into their thoughts.
Not only do Negotiators connect with most types on a psychological level, but they also have a strong ability to remain mentally flexible. They deftly weigh many variables and consider all the options
when it comes to decision-making. They see things holistically in
a contextual manner, rather than linearly. Comfortable with ambiguity, Negotiators can be highly intuitive and creative, and they like to theorize. They are known for their keen ability to find
just the right words to say. Because of this, alongside their socially agreeable and accommodating nature, their compassion, and patience — the Negotiator can be very friendly, diplomatic, and authentic.
However, Negotiators can sometimes be overly ambiguous, and they may appear wishy-washy to the point of shadiness. They dislike confrontation, conflict, aggression, and competition. They see all possibilities. And rather than taking action, they can get bogged down in analysis and indecisiveness. Their compulsion to dissect and overanalyze situations can become invasive and detrimental to relationships.
Like Directors, this personality type is not gender-specific; Negotiators pair well with Directors, whose decisiveness complements their indecisiveness, among many other complementary traits.
DIRECTORS –
The ones that make it happen!
Directors are…
Direct, tough-minded, logical, dependable, and practical. Directors are here to make intelligent and strategic decisions to achieve goals and success. And they do! They are the most efficient and competitive type.
Who do they match well with? Who should a Director choose as a romantic partner?
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About Directors
Directors are driven by testosterone, a hormone that regulates fertility, muscle mass, fat distribution, and red blood cell production. It’s the hormone associated with the YANG energy in Feng Shui.
These people exhibit traits related to enhanced visual-spatial perception and a keen understanding of mechanics, math, engineering, or music. They excel at acute attention to detail and have deep but narrow interests.
They also tend to be less socially aware, with poorer emotion recognition, less eye contact, less verbal fluency, reduced empathy, and extreme sensitivity to social rank. While they are often self-confident, forthright, assertive, and emotionally contained, they also experience more emotional flooding and may fly off the handle in an angry outburst.
Those expressive of testosterone regularly exhibit acute attention to detail and have deep but narrow interests. They also tend to be less socially aware, with poorer emotion recognition, less eye contact, less verbal fluency, reduced empathy, and extreme sensitivity to social rank. Yet these people are often self-confident, forthright, assertive, and emotionally contained, although they also experience more emotional flooding, and are susceptible to flying off the handle in an angry outburst.
Directors are intensely competitive. They strive to be the best and boast many skills that help them to succeed. Pragmatic, resilient, and decisive, Directors have a knack for making up their minds rapidly, even when forced to make difficult, life-changing decisions. Razor-sharp focus and strong will helps them realize their goals. They adopt a highly linear process when tackling a task or challenge, ignoring personal and emotional distractions. Bold in their ideas, and they are willing to take unpopular, even risky paths, to get to the truth. They persist and often get what they want.
The Director often chooses to do a good job rather than please others, making them the least socially skilled of the four types. When preoccupied with work or personal goals, they appear aloof, even cold, and are generally not interested in making social connections, except those that excite or benefit them.
The Director’s abundant confidence can veer into bragging, and their forthrightness can come off as rude. Prone to see issues in black and white, they miss out on the human subtleties that often make up the fabric of social, and personal situations, and may feel like they cannot relate to others. Despite this, when they do find those who excite them, Directors make close lifelong friends, who they protect fiercely.
Women as well as men can be dominated by testosterone. Directors make the best love match with Negotiators, whose tenderness complements their tough-minded nature, among many other complementary traits.
