Welcome to the Dating Pattern Test

Understand yourself first — then understand who you’re attracted to (and why).

Do you keep feeling drawn to the same kind of connection?

This test helps you discover:

- your natural personality traits
- how you love, bond, and communicate
- what stabilises you and energises you
- who you’re naturally drawn to and compatible with

Created by renowned anthropologist Helen Fisher and taken by 14+ million people worldwide.

Explorer • Builder • Director • Negotiator

Each person has a unique “relational signature”.

When you understand yours, Dating begins to change.
Average time for completing the test: 10 minutes.

About Elisa's Work

Guiding single women to recognise patterns, understand attraction more clearly, choose more aligned partners, and create relationships that are emotionally healthy, deeply compatible, and sustainable over time.

Disclosure: Elisa is not a psychologist nor a couples' therapist. She is an internationally certified Life Coach, providing practical relational coaching aimed at romantic relational dynamics, based on proven scientific studies.




Scale 1

1. I find unpredictable situations exhilarating.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
2. I do things on the spur of the moment.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
3. I get bored when I have to do the same familiar things.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
4. I have a very wide range of interests.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
5. I am more optimistic than most people.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
6. I am more creative than most people.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
7. I am always looking for new experiences.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
8. I am always doing new things.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
9. I am more enthusiastic than most people.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
10. I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
11. I get restless if I have to stay home for any length of time.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
12. My friends would say I am very curious.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
13. I have more energy than most people.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
14. On my time off, I like to be free to do whatever looks fun.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree

Scale 2

1. I think consistent routines keep life orderly and relaxing.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
2. I consider (and reconsider) every option thoroughly before making a plan.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
3. People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
4. I enjoy planning way ahead.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
5. In general, I think it is important to follow rules.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
6. Taking care of my possessions is a high priority for me.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
7. My friends and family would say I have traditional values.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
8. I tend to be meticulous in my duties.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
9. I tend to be cautious, but not fearful.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
10. People should behave in ways that are morally correct.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
11. It is important to respect authority.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
12. I would rather have loyal friends than interesting friends.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
13. Long established customs need to be respected and preserved.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
14. I like to work in a straightforward path toward completing the task.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree

Scale 3

1. I understand complex machines easily.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
2. I enjoy competitive conversations.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
3. I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
4. I am more analytical and logical than most people.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
5. I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
6. I am able to solve problems without letting emotion get in the way.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
7. I like to figure out how things work.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
8. I am tough-minded.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
9. Debating is a good way to match my wits with others.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
10. I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
11. When I buy a new machine (like a camera, computer or car), I want to know all of its technical features.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
12. I like to avoid the nuances and say exactly what I mean.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
13. I think it is important to be direct.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
14.When making a decision, I like to stick to the facts rather than be swayed by people’s feelings.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree

Scale 4

1. I like to get to know my friends’ deepest needs and feelings.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
2. I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
3. Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
4. I frequently catch myself daydreaming.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
5. I can change my mind easily.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
6. After watching an emotional film I often still feel moved by it several hours later.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
7. I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
8. I am very sensitive to people’s feelings and needs.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
9. I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
10. I feel emotions more deeply than most people.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
11. I have a vivid imagination.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
12. When I wake up from a vivid dream, it takes me a few seconds to return to reality.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
13. When reading, I enjoy it when the writer takes a sidetrack to say something beautiful or meaningful.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree
14. I am very empathetic.
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Agree
Strongly Agree

Please make sure you answered all questions.

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